Blogger.Bear Lover.Survivor.

How did littlestlady.com start?

Back in June 2012 i decided i wanted to share what id been through. That my story and struggles may help someone going through the same. The only trouble with that was it meant the first time sharing anything with anyone.

Thats right. My life was a secret. To most id grown up in a privileged background and been carried through life on a golden throne. Nobody, not even those closed to me knew that i had come from a toxic and abusive background.

I had always been known as the little one in my social groups, hence the ‘littlest lady’ someone that people felt needed looking after. However,I wanted to show that i could look after myself because id been through more than anyone could of ever imagined..

ABOUT ME

Hello there poppets!

My name’s Jessica. I am a blogger a bear lover and an all round positivity bug!
I lived most of my younger days with my grandma which meant me growing up loving all things 1950s, vintage and a little bit kitsch.Though i spent most of my younger days dancing round the living room to Bing Crosby and Rosemary Clooney my life had a lot darker side.

This is my story and journal about the journey and survival of child abuse and all those little battles that come with it!


She stood in the storm, and when the wind did not blow her away she adjusted her sails.

During my short years i encountered emotional,physical and sexual abuse and also suffered two assaults.I was left completely crippled with hurt and betrayal and was left to rebuild my little life right from the very start.

After surviving something i never thought i could I decided to delve deep into my life and try to figure it all out. Look at what kept me going, what helped me during my journey and also look at how it all went so wrong for my abusers. I wanted to redefine the stereotype and become something more than an addict,alcoholic or an abuser myself. I wanted to be a good person though the world had tried to teach me to be cold and cruel.

I strongly believe in making our pasts just a story and a guide to help others and that’s what im on a mission to do.
So come on in and follow my journey where i will be showing that there is a life after abuse.


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